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Me: Christina
Age: 30+

Canon Crossovers? YES PLEASE. These are some of my favorite things.
Threadjacking? Public Posts/Communication - YES. I am fine with it. Private & In Person Action - Ask first.
Touching? Hugging? Go for it. Erica is very tactile due to having been very careful most her life. She invades personal space, feel free to invade hers right back.
Kissing? Sex? This is totally possible. I am a fan of things building organically, but if you're looking for something without plot, we can do that.
Injury/Torture? Let's plan first.
Death? Again, I need a plan/plot and a lot of details first.
Everything Else? I have a few lists down below, but if you ever are unsure if I'm okay with something just ask. 9/10 I'll be fine with it.


Smut/Porn/Sex In General: I am completely okay with fade to black. I am okay doing the heavy lifting in a sex scene (ie: I write most of the sex and you write the reactionary emotions.) I am totally okay with writing flowery, emotions heavy sex scenes. I am ridiculously comfortable writing graphic insert tab A into slot B sex scenes. There are very few things that I have a hard NO on and the soft nos are generally easily slipped by with enough communication. I am perfectly okay using both C words for female and male anatomy. I have no aversion to the word moist (idk some people do). If we write a lot of smut/sex together I try to vary it up, however sometimes a break is needed so that repetition doesn't end up killing the CR/Plot-line. Usually in that case, I will start to slow tag one sex scene while we build up plot points elsewhere.

PSLs: I love them. If you just want one with me, let me know. I do not put those tags with priority though, so please do not be worried if it's been a few days/weeks without a tag. I never drop threads. If you are concerned, feel free to poke me via a PM and we can try to work out a time table to keep things on track.

Contacting Me: Sending me a PM is honestly, the best way to get in touch with me. IMs, emails, and private plurks often get lost in the shuffle, but I keep all PM notifs in my tag inbox until they are properly concluded.


KINKS = YES

Listed by Character Preferences

Pegging, costumes, roleplaying, frottage, oral giving & receiving, cumplay, bloodplay, biting, marking, claiming, body worship giving or receiving, mutual masturbation, early orgasm, delayed sexual contact, visual proof of stimulation/arousal, baths/showers, shaving helping & being helped, being in control, multiple orgasms, having sex multiple times in one setting, over the clothing, fondling, nipple play, licking, sucking, older men, dangerous men, increased risk scenarios, public sex, hate sex, phone sex, texting photos, watching pornography together, nerd-cred is hot too.

KINKS = MAYBE
Anal receiving. (trust required)



KINKS = NO
No bathroom related bodily functions.
No death/suffocation.
No one under 15. (erica is 16)
No torture/injury.
No non-con.
No food-insertion.
No restraint/bondage (requires trust built first - due to canon point)

MORE YES KINKS

Listed by Fan Fiction Trope

Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)
Adrenaline and crises (pre-, mid-, or post-crisis sex; see also Situational engineering)
Age differences (older men)
Alpha males
Angst
Animal themes or fetishization (werewolves only)
Anti-heroes (villains with principles; enemies who keep their word)
Attention (treating someone specially in front of others)
AUs
Bad boys (punks, rebels)
Bad girls (acting like)
Barebacking
Baths and water
Beards or stubble
Beauty (a character who is highly desired by many others; beauty as a barrier to approachability)
Begging or offering (for sexual release, to be taken; a character offering himself; neediness)
Beloved enemies
Big men (tall, broad, muscled)
Bisexuality
Biting (marking, nipping, chewing)
Blood (fetishization of wounds; blood-play)
Blow-jobs (oral sex, fellatio)
Body fetishes not listed elsewhere (muscular arms, shoulders, breasts, collarbones, cheekbones, jawlines, and chest)
Body-painting or inkbrushing on someone's skin
Breath (as a caress; hitching or ragged; indrawn breath or gasps; sighs)
Bruises and other wounds
Catalysts
Claiming or establishing ownership (in private)
Clams (i.e., characters who are stoic, terse)
Climax (e.g., described in detail)
Clothes fetishization (of any kind)
Clumsiness (awkwardness; overeagerness; during sex or in general)
Cock fetishization (uncircumcised cocks, durable erection, deep dicking, very hard/rigid erection, trouser bulges)
Cock worship
Come-marking (letting it dry visibly on the skin)
Coming in one's pants (giving or receiving)
Coming in or on one's partner (in mouth or vagina; on body/breasts)
Coming quickly (premature ejaculation)
Competence
Condoms
Confessions (revelation of love/desire; of other secrets;)
Conflicts and challenges
Cross-dressing (voluntary or suggested preferred)
Crossovers
Crush or unrequited love
Cuddling
Cunnilingus
Cyber themes (email & smart phone style tech only)
Dancing
Deep-throating
Delayed gratification
Depilation (waxing, shaving)
Dildos (dildo; harnesses; strap-ons)
Discipline or punishment (anything with restraints/bondage will need to be worked up to due to canon point)
Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure)
Ejaculate, come (pre-ejaculate slickness; messy orgasms - no to massive amounts)
Endearments (only in private or as a teasing joke)
Enemies working together
Exhibitionism
Exposure
Face-fucking (blow-job)
Face-sitting (straddling for blow-job or cunnilingus)
Fantasies (shared or solitary; role-playing)
Finger-fucking (as preparation, foreplay, accompaniment, or main act)
First times
Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)
Forbidden pleasures
Foreplay
Friction or frottage
Friendship and affection (gestures of friendship; friendship as pre-slash)
Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies)
Fucking machines
Good boys (characters who prompt a desire to corrupt or provoke them)
Grunge (dirty and sweaty, needing a shower; actual mud/dirt elements in a sex scene)
Hair fetishization (buzz-cuts; long hair; hair-grabbing during blow-jobs; hairy chests)
Hand fetishization (big strong hands; steady hands; rough knuckles; calluses; fists clenching in sheets)
Hand-jobs
Healing or comfort sex (one character soothing another who is deeply upset or fearful)
Heat (hot lazy summer days; sweat-slick skin; tempers rising with the heat; urgent fucking a la Body Heat)
Hot spots (on Erica: Neck, breasts, nipples, just below navel, lower back & spine)
Hurt/comfort (emotional and any form of caretaking)
Intelligence
Intercrural or interfemoral sex (i.e., thrusting cock between partner's thighs)
Intimacy
Kissing, necking
Lady and the Tramp pairings (see also Rough behavior)
Love and passion
Love/hate relationship
Magical themes (used as plot device/catalyst, not to force intimacy)
Make-overs
Make-up sex or reunions
Masks / Masquerade
Massage
Masturbation (solitary or mutual)
Messiness and markers of arousal
Mirrors
Multiple orgasms
Multiple partners
Neck fetishization (nape of the neck, throat, hickeys, etc)
Nipple play or torture
Noises
Oral fixation or fetishization
Orgasm denial
Pain (with or without pleasure/endorphins)
Pampering
Penance or reform
Physical imperfections (scars or burns)
Physical responses
Pillow biting
Playing hard to get
Pornography (magazines and videos;)
Possessiveness or jealousy
Power issues (preference to being in control)
Predator/prey pairings
Preferential treatment (e.g., making a point of showing respect towards someone when no one else does; showing a soft side only to them)
Protectiveness
Public displays of affection, PDAs
Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex)
Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)
Scars or scarification
School themes and fetishization
Secret admirers
Secrets, other (dark or criminal past; double lives; previous marriage and/or children; unspoken feelings)
Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing;)
Sex in public or semi-public places
Sex in vehicles
Sex is interrupted
Sex on, against, or under furniture
Sex outdoors/outside
Sex standing up (including against a wall)
Sex with clothes still on or partly on
Sexual appetite or excess
Sexual discovery
Sexual experience or expertise
Sexual frustration
Sexual hang-ups
Sexual movements
Sharing (food, clothing, partners)
Shower sex
Shyness
Silence
Simultaneous orgasm
Situational engineering (the manufacture of events that give an emotional or sexual pay-off which can't be otherwise achieved)
Sixty-nine (69)
Sleep and bedding themes (sex as a sleep aid; autonomic arousal from proximity; morning wake-up sex)
Slow and/or prolonged sex
Smarm (intense friendship with physical closeness but no actual sex)
Smiles or laughing
Snark
Spanking (okay with objects/items)
Special powers and skills
Spooning
Striptease
Submission (obedience)
Surprises
Swallowing (come)
Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction;)
Taste as an erotic element
Tattoos (decorative, symbolic)
Temperamental personalities (driven or obsessed)
Threesomes (M/F/M, F/F/M, F/F/F)
Topping
Topping from the bottom
Touching
Toughness
Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)
Tragic flaws
Trapped or stranded together
Undressing
Urgency for sex
UST (unresolved sexual tension)
Vaginal/female genital fetishization (wet, tight; virginal; aching/stiff clit; wide lips; multi-orgasmic)
Vaginal penetration (e.g., deep dicking)
Vampires (okay with sex/feeding them)
Violent feelings (hatred; murderous rage; need for revenge)
Violent and dark natures
Virgins or inexperienced partners
Voice fetishization
Washing (washing one's partner, body or hair; bubble baths; shower scenes)
Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)
Wet dreams or erotic dreams
Wish-fulfillment
Writing (on skin, to each other)

Listed by Latin Term
Ablutophilia - Baths or showers
Acousticophilia - Aroused by sounds
Agoraphilia - Sex in public places
Agrexophilia - Excitement from knowing that others are aware of a persons sexual activities
Algolagnia/Algalagnia - Love of pain
Allorgasmia - Fantasizing about someone other than one's partner
Alphmegamia - Older men
Altocalciphilia - High heels (see retifism)
Alvinolagnia - Stomachs (see partialism)
Amaurophilia - Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner
Anasteemaphilia - Taller or shorter partners
Anophelorastia - Defiling or ravaging a partner
Aphephilia - Being touched
Asthenolagnia - Weakness/being humiliated
Audiophilia - Recorded sound
Coprolalia - Using obscene language or writing
Crurophilia - Legs
Ecouteurism - Listening to others having sex without permission
Endytophilia - Partners who are clothed
Exhibitionism - Showing genitals in public
Frotteurism - Rubbing one's genitals against or fondling the body parts of a non-consenting person
Gerontophilia - Partner whose age is that of different generation
Gynelophilous - Sight/touch of pubic hair (see acomoclitic, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Gymnophilia - Nudity
Haematomania/Hematolagnia - Blood
Hamartophilia - Committing acts you consider to be sinful
Haptephilia - Becoming extremely aroused by being touched
Harmatophilia - Sexual incompetence/mistakes
Hodophilia - Traveling
Hybristophilia - People who have committed crimes, people who are cruel/outrageous
Hygrophilia - Body fluids or moisture
Hyphephilia - Touching skin, hair, leather, fur, or fabric/specific fabric
Keraunophilia - Thunder and/or lightning
Narratophilia - Discussing sex with others
Nyctophilia - Darkness or night
Odaxelagnia - Biting/being bitten
Parthenophilia - Sex with virgins
Partialism - Specific parts of the body (see alvinolagnia, nasophilia, oculophilia, podophilia)
Pecattiphilia - Sinning/guilt
Psychrocism - Cold/ice
Pygophilia - Contact with the buttocks
Sadism - Dominating/mistreating/humiliating one's partner
Scatophilia - Obscene phone calls
Tantalolagnia - Teasing
Thlipsosis - Pinching
Trichophilia - Hair (touching, playing with)
Triolism - Three-party sex
Troilism - Couples
Tripsolagnophilia - Massage
Voyeurism - Watching others have sex
Zelophilia - Jealousy